Body Shame: Don’t carry your weight

To some it is just water, to me it is where I regain my sanity! When your body is too tired, swim with your heart! Girls come in all shapes! What you stare at in admiration on social media is a pixel perfect version of the human who posed for the shot. The real human…

Grief and the little master : cry stories

To let cry or not to cry! No one can stand a new born crying out for long and least of all the mother. Attachment theory says a parent should pick up the child as soon as it cries and soothe it. They believe this creates a trust relationship between the child and parent. The…

Imagination and Child development : Unicorns and Rainbows are important

The development of the imagination during childhood helps as adults to perform many of the tasks that daily life demands. As adults we constantly use imagination to help invent new things, visualize, solve problems, enjoy a movie, understand others’ perspectives, make plans, come up with ideas, and think creatively. #askmorefromyourtoys If you aim to raise…

Fat and Fabulous

My dear friend was suffering from cancer for two years and losing weight. Everyone who met her commented on how smashing she looked. Our generation has somehow perceived thin as fit and fat as ugly. A healthy lifestyle on the other hand looks nothing like what you see on the magazine cover. We want our…

Goal Setting : Parents have milestones too

Eyes on the prize! Why is goal setting so important in life ?Frankly without a purpose in life all that we will be is a lost soul. We all go through this at various stages of life. I found myself in such a square six months after my delivery. I went from working 18 hour…

Confessions of a Muddled Mom : Theme Reveal.

Your little human has managed to turn it 360 degrees and a quarter. I know mine did. I feel like I have known him for ages. I know what he is gonna do the next second. I know what he feels and what he is trying to say.But it wasn’t always like this always. A…

Why do I need a Blog: a Social Media Influencer’s perspective on blogging.

Influencer Marketing has seen its boom after 2010 and there is much war on social media with terminologies- Who should call themselves a blogger? Well, if you do not have a website/ blog to your brand name you aren’t technically a blogger. You are an Influencer nevertheless. Social media Influencers especially those on Instagram and…

Girls come in all shapes and sizes

Every girl has stood in front of the mirror and seen a stranger look back at her. I look at older photographs of myself and realize how “thin” or greatly shaped I was 2 years ago. Yet if you quizzed the 28 year old me, I would have said I was fat and wanted to…

Emotional Abuse and How to recognize it?

I can safely assume that by now we as women are liberated enough to recognize physical abuse and raise our voices over it. The same cannot be said about emotional abuse or emotional domestic violence plainly because one has no visible scars to show for the proof of abuse even to oneself. But the scars…

Diaries are a girl’s best friend- not diamonds.

Most of us began writing in diaries when we were probably teens. It transitioned to wordpads, secret online password protected notes but there is something earthy and ethereal about the connections  of the ink to paper. It feels like a painting and not just words. It gives one a sense of release that little else…